Line the bottom of a clear bowl with straight sides with the lady fingers and place one row of split ladyfingers aroudn the sides of the bowl. Spoon a layer of vanilla pudding over the ladyfingers, follow with a layer of mixed fruit or a layer of two different kinds of fruit. Add a layer of jelly. Make a layer of ladyfingers. Begin again with a layer of pudding followed by a layer of fruit, jelly than ladyfingers. Continue with layers until the bowl is filled near the top. Over the top spray whipped topping from a can or spoon topping over the top. Sprinkle with chocolate shavings or silver dragees. Refrigerate until serving.